One way to find out that your husband or wife is cheating on you is to check if he/she has an online dating profile. You can do it using different methods.
Is your husband/wife betraying you? One of the ways to find out is to check if you have any dating profile on the Internet.
Check the Ashley Madison website
One of the options to find out if your husband has an Internet dating profile is to check out the database of Ashley Madison members.
Ashley Madison is a dating site, focused on married people who want to find someone else unfaithful. This database was made public on websites, such as checkashleymadison.com, in 2015 when Ashley Madison data was stolen.
You can enter your spouse’s email address to see if the results match. If a result is displayed, your husband may have had a dating account at Ashley Madison. Data leaks have not been certified by the company, so a coincidence would not be an irrefutable proof that your husband has had an account.
Keep in mind that the database is only updated until 2015, so you will not be able to find any profile created later that year. However, you can see all new profiles by creating an account on the website.
Create a profile on a website
Many dating sites allow you to create a free profile. You can create a profile on a website and then use it to see if your husband has an active account on it.
What to do and what not to do to create a fake profile:
- Do not use a photo: You might be tempted to use someone else’s image to hide your true identity, but this could get you into trouble.
- Do not use your real age, hair or any information that can identify you: If your husband has an account and you check his profile, maybe he can see that your profile is visiting his. You need to use a slightly different age and do the same with height, weight and profession, to keep the profile the most difficult to identify.
- Create accounts on various websites: There are many websites where your spouse could have an appointment profile including Plenty of Fish, OKCupid, eHarmony, Match, Ashley Madison, Meetic and Adult Friend Finder. You need to create profiles in each of these if you want to carry out a comprehensive search for your spouse.
- Search for profiles in a wide range of ages: It is possible that your husband has used an age other than yours to prevent people who know him from finding him on the dating site. You should look for different age ranges (for example between 30 and 45 if your husband is 34) to make sure you find any profile that your spouse could have.
Check the apps and emails on your phone.
If your husband allows you to use his smartphone, you can check it to see if he has installed suspicious applications. Search for applications like Tinder, POF, Match, OKCupid, Coffee Meets Bagel, Hinge, Bumble and Happn.
These are all the applications of exclusive meetings. Check all folders on your phone as some applications may be hidden in folders.
You can also open your email application to see if you have any emails from any of the meeting or website applications we mentioned above. You should not receive this type of mail unless you have a profile on one of those sites.
It’s important to remember that you should not check your husband’s smartphone unless he gives you permission to use it, as you can get into trouble using his device without his consent.